The generation gap becomes obvious whenever my grandfather talks about phones.
Generation Gap
6A Minding the Gap — having something done, asking someone to do something, asking/giving advice · 6B Bridging the Gap — national/moral/cultural values across generations
Başlamadan önce
What Will I Learn?
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- Bu temada neyi öğreneceğini oku.
- Aşağıdaki 8 adımı sırayla takip et; üstteki sekmelerden de geçebilirsin.
- Her adımın sonunda “Bu adımı tamamladım”a bas.
- İlerlemen bu tarayıcıda saklanır; hesap gerekmez.
Konular
- 6A Minding the Gap — having something done, asking someone to do something, asking/giving advice
- 6B Bridging the Gap — national/moral/cultural values across generations
Dil yapıları
- Confusing words
- Phrasal verbs about relationships between generations
Çalışma yolu
Adım 1 / 8
Vocabulary
20 hedef kelime
Nasıl çalışılır?
- Her kartta kelimeyi oku, hoparlör düğmesiyle dinle.
- Örnek cümleyi yüksek sesle tekrar et.
- “Anlamları gizle” ile kendini test et; anlamı görmek için üstüne dokun.
- Bilmediğin kelimeleri defterine yaz.
Her strict upbringing taught her to always respect her elders.
My grandmother has a surprisingly modern outlook for her age.
In many Turkish families, elders are consulted before big decisions are made.
Sunday family lunch is a tradition my parents refuse to give up.
My grandfather has slowly adapted to using a smartphone.
Honesty is a principle my parents raised me to value above almost everything.
Social media has clearly affected how teenagers communicate with their families.
One effect of the generation gap is that grandparents and grandchildren sometimes struggle to talk about feelings.
My aunt always gives me advice about saving money, even when I don't ask for it.
Our teacher advised us to listen carefully before disagreeing with our parents.
The older generation grew up during a very different economic period.
My grandparents are far more economical than my generation — they repair things instead of replacing them.
It's sensible to listen to your elders' experience, even if you don't always agree.
Talking about old family arguments can be a sensitive topic at dinner.
Many young people in Türkiye still look after their grandparents at home.
I've always looked up to my grandfather because of his patience.
It isn't easy for older relatives to keep up with new technology.
Some families grow apart when they stop sharing daily routines together.
My grandmother passed her recipes down to my mother, and now to me.
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Play
Kelimeleri oyunla pekiştir.
Nasıl çalışılır?
- Bir oyun seç ve Başla’ya bas.
- Her cevaptan sonra hemen doğru/yanlış görürsün.
- Sonunda tekrar etmen gereken kelimeler listelenir.
- %70 ve üzeri alınca bu adım tamamlanır.
Öğretmenler: her oyunun sınıfta oynanacak kart sürümü öğretmen sayfasında.
Adım 3 / 8
Grammar
Kuralı ezberleme; örneklerden kendin keşfet.
Nasıl çalışılır?
- Notice: Örnek cümlelerdeki renkli kısımlara bak.
- Discover: Kuralı tamamla, ipuçlarıyla cümle kur, sonra kendi cümlelerini yaz.
- Rule ve Form tablosunu oku; sık yapılan hatalara dikkat et.
- Practice: Soruları cevapla, “Kontrol et”e bas.
Causative: Have/Get Something Done
- My grandfather never had his photo taken as a child — cameras were rare back then.
- We're going to get the old family house repainted before the reunion this summer.
- She doesn't cook every dish herself; she often has meals delivered by her granddaughter instead.
- Could you get your brother to fix the Wi-Fi for your grandmother? She can't get online.
In these sentences, does the subject of the sentence do the action themselves, or does someone else do it for them?
A Complete the rule
Look at the Notice sentences again. Complete the rule with the words in the box.
Well done — you've worked out the rule yourself!
B Build sentences
Use the cues to build true sentences with the causative.
- my mother have / her hair / cut every month
✓ My mother has her hair cut every month.
- my grandparents get / their garden / looked after by a neighbour
Model answer
My grandparents get their garden looked after by a neighbour.
- we have / the old photos / scanned last weekend
Model answer
We had the old photos scanned last weekend.
- my father never / get / his car / washed he always does it himself
Model answer
My father never gets his car washed; he always does it himself.
- could you get / your cousin / to explain the new app to your grandmother?
Model answer
Could you get your cousin to explain the new app to your grandmother?
- ? / your family ever / have / a family portrait / painted
Model answer
Has your family ever had a family portrait painted?
C Your turn
Write four sentences about things your family has done for them, or things you could get a family member to do for you.
We use 'have/get something done' when someone else does an action for us, instead of doing it ourselves: have/get + object + past participle (e.g. have your hair cut). We use 'get someone to do something' when we persuade or arrange for a specific person to do it (e.g. get your brother to fix the Wi-Fi).
TRBir işi kendimiz yapmak yerine başka birine yaptırdığımızda 'have/get something done' yapısını kullanırız: have/get + nesne + past participle (Ör: have your hair cut). Belirli bir kişiyi bir şey yapmaya ikna ettiğimizde ya da ayarladığımızda 'get someone to do something' yapısı kullanılır (Ör: get your brother to fix the Wi-Fi).
We use these structures to talk about having a service done by someone else (getting a haircut, having a car washed) or asking a family member to do something for us.
TRBir hizmeti başkasına yaptırdığımızı (kuaförde saç kestirmek, arabayı yıkatmak) ya da bir aile üyesinden bir şey yapmasını istediğimizi anlatırken bu yapıları kullanırız.
Positive
- She had her old letters framed for her birthday.
- We got the garden tidied before the guests arrived.
Negative
- He doesn't get his meals delivered; he cooks everything himself.
- They haven't had the house repainted yet.
Question
- Did you have your photo taken at the family reunion?
- Can you get your uncle to explain the old family stories?
Short answers
- Yes, I did. / No, I didn't.
- Yes, I can. / No, he's too busy.
- My grandmother had cut her hair yesterday.My grandmother had her hair cut yesterday.
In the causative, the verb must be a past participle placed after the object: have + object + past participle.
TRCausative yapıda fiil past participle olmalı ve nesneden sonra gelmelidir: have + nesne + past participle.
- He got his brother fix the computer.He got his brother to fix the computer.
In 'get someone to do something', the 'to' must not be dropped.
TR'Get someone to do something' yapısında 'to' unutulmamalıdır.
- We had done our photos taken last month.We had our photos taken last month.
In the causative, an extra 'done' must not be added; only have/get + object + past participle is used.
TRCausative yapıda 'done' fazladan eklenmemelidir; sadece have/get + nesne + past participle kullanılır.
| have/get + object + past participle | get + person + to + verb | |
|---|---|---|
| Focus | the action/result, not who does itShe had her portrait painted. | who specifically does itShe got her nephew to paint her portrait. |
| Typical use | services, arrangementsWe got the roof repaired. | persuading/asking a personWe got a builder to repair the roof. |
| Word order | object before past participle | person before 'to + verb' |
Asking for and Giving Advice: should, ought to, had better, if I were you, why don't you
- If you want a closer relationship with your grandparents, you should call them more often, not just text.
- You ought to listen to your parents' experience before dismissing their advice completely.
- You had better ask your grandmother about the family recipe before it's forgotten forever.
- Why don't you ask your father to teach you how he learned to save money as a teenager?
Which expressions give general advice, and which one sounds like a stronger warning about something urgent?
A Complete the rule
Complete the rule with the words in the box.
Great — you've worked out the rule!
B Build sentences
Use the cues to build true or realistic advice sentences. Choose the most suitable expression.
- you should / spend more time with your grandparents
✓ You should spend more time with your grandparents.
- you ought to / respect your elders' experience
Model answer
You ought to respect your elders' experience.
- you had better / apologise before your grandmother gets upset
Model answer
You had better apologise before your grandmother gets upset.
- why / don't you ask your father for advice about the interview?
Model answer
Why don't you ask your father for advice about the interview?
- if I / were you I / would talk to my parents honestly
Model answer
If I were you, I would talk to my parents honestly.
- ? / what / should I do if my grandparents disagree with my choices?
Model answer
What should I do if my grandparents disagree with my choices?
C Your turn
Write four sentences giving advice about handling a generational disagreement — use at least three different advice expressions.
'Should' and 'ought to' give general advice. 'Had better' gives a stronger warning, often implying a negative consequence if not followed. 'Why don't you…?' offers a friendly suggestion as a question. 'If I were you, I would…' gives advice by imagining yourself in someone else's situation.
TRGenel tavsiye vermek için 'should' ve 'ought to' kullanılır. Daha güçlü, ciddi sonuçları olan bir uyarı için 'had better' kullanılır. Nazik bir öneriyi soru şeklinde sunmak için 'Why don't you…?' kullanılır. Kendimizi birinin yerine koyarak tavsiye vermek için 'If I were you, I would…' kullanılır.
We use these expressions when exchanging advice within a family or across generations, especially when a polite or respectful tone is needed.
TRAile içinde ya da kuşaklar arasında tavsiye alışverişinde bulunurken, özellikle nazik ya da saygılı bir üslup gerektiğinde bu yapıları kullanırız.
Positive
- You should call your grandmother more often.
- You had better talk to your parents before deciding.
Negative
- You shouldn't ignore your elders' advice completely.
- You'd better not argue with your grandfather at dinner.
Question
- What should I do about this disagreement?
- Why don't you ask your mother for her opinion?
Short answers
- You should apologise. / You shouldn't wait any longer.
- Why don't you? / I already did.
- You should to listen to your grandmother.You should listen to your grandmother.
'Should' is a modal verb and is never followed by 'to'.
TR'Should' bir modal fiildir ve sonrasında 'to' gelmez.
- You had better to apologise soon.You had better apologise soon.
'Had better' is never followed by 'to' — it takes the base verb directly.
TR'Had better' sonrasında 'to' kullanılmaz, doğrudan fiil gelir.
- If I was you, I would talk to him honestly.If I were you, I would talk to him honestly.
In this advice structure, 'were' is used instead of 'was', even with 'I' (a hypothetical condition).
TRTavsiye verirken bu yapıda 'was' değil 'were' kullanılır (hypothetical/unreal condition).
| Gentler / general | Stronger / more urgent | |
|---|---|---|
| Expressions | should, ought to, why don't you, if I were you | had better |
| Example | You should talk to your grandfather about it.You should talk to your grandfather about it. | You'd better talk to him before he finds out another way.You'd better talk to him before he finds out another way. |
| Implication | a reasonable suggestion | a warning of a negative result if ignored |
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Reading
Özgün metin ve anlama soruları.
Nasıl çalışılır?
- Before: Başlığa bakıp tahmin et.
- Metni önce hızlıca, sonra dikkatle oku.
- While: Soruları cevapla ve kontrol et.
- After: Konuşma sorularını düşün ya da yaz.
1 Before reading
- Look at the title. What do you think 'the same river, different banks' might mean about generations?
- What is one thing your grandparents' generation did differently from yours?
The Same River, Different Banks
Every generation likes to believe it invented independence. Grandparents in Türkiye often describe childhoods spent playing football in the street until dark, with no phone to call home and no need for one — the whole neighbourhood, they say, looked after every child. Their grandchildren, meanwhile, grew up with smartphones in their pockets and a constant stream of messages from worried parents. Which generation was really freer is a question that rarely gets a simple answer.
Sociologists suggest that each generation's outlook is shaped less by personality than by the economic and technological conditions it grows up in. A generation that lived through hardship often values saving money and repairing things rather than replacing them; a generation raised with instant information often values speed, choice and self-expression instead. Neither outlook is wrong — they are simply sensible responses to very different worlds.
The real danger, researchers argue, isn't the generation gap itself but the assumption that it can't be bridged. Families who regularly talk about their different experiences — rather than judging each other by their own generation's standards — tend to pass down both practical skills and emotional closeness. A grandmother who gets her granddaughter to show her how video calls work, and a granddaughter who asks her grandmother how she once cooked for a family of ten on a tight budget, are both quietly closing the same gap.
230 kelime · yaklaşık 2 dk
2 While reading
3 After reading
- Do you agree that neither generation's outlook is 'wrong'? Why or why not?
- Can you think of a skill an older relative could teach you, or one you could teach them?
1 Before reading
- What do you know about how people communicated before mobile phones?
- Does your family have any rules about phones at meals? What do you think of them?
Letters, Landlines and Loud Dinners
Merve's grandfather still keeps a box of handwritten letters from his years working abroad in the 1970s. 'We waited weeks for news,' he tells her, 'and every letter felt like an event.' Merve, who video-calls her cousins in Germany every weekend without a second thought, finds the story almost impossible to imagine — yet she notices that her grandfather remembers the exact words of letters he received fifty years ago, while she sometimes forgets a text message within minutes.
The family's Sunday dinners are where these two worlds collide loudest. Merve's grandmother insists that everyone sit at the table with their phones switched off, a rule she enforces with surprising firmness for someone so soft-spoken otherwise. At first, Merve found the rule old-fashioned and slightly unfair. Over time, though, she noticed that these were the only two hours each week when her whole extended family actually looked at one another while talking.
Merve's mother, caught between both generations, often acts as a translator of sorts — explaining to her own mother why a video call matters as much as a letter once did, and reminding Merve that patience, not just connection, was something her grandfather's generation had in abundance. Nobody in the family has fully convinced the others that their way is best. What they have managed, slowly, is to borrow a little from each generation and build something that works for all three.
234 kelime · yaklaşık 2 dk
2 While reading
3 After reading
- Whose approach do you find more convincing — the grandfather's patience or Merve's instant connection? Why?
- What is one 'rule' from an older generation in your own family that you now understand better than you used to?
Adım 5 / 8
Listening
Dinle, anla, transkriptle kontrol et.
Nasıl çalışılır?
- Before: Ne duyacağını tahmin et.
- Kaydı dinle; transkripti kapalı tut.
- Soruları cevapla, kontrol et.
- Son olarak transkriptle kontrol et ve tekrar dinle.
Asking Dad for Advice
1 Before listening
- Predict: what kind of advice do you think a father might give about a disagreement with a grandmother?
2 While listening
Transkripti göster
EgeDad, Grandma is really upset with me. I don't know what to do.
FatherWhat happened?
EgeI took my laptop to a repair shop instead of asking her cousin to fix it, like she wanted.
FatherAh, I see. You have to understand, Grandma's family always helped each other by getting things done through people they trust, not strangers.
EgeI didn't think of it that way. I just wanted it fixed quickly.
FatherI understand, but to her it probably felt like you didn't trust the family.
EgeShould I call her?
FatherYou'd better call her soon, before it turns into a bigger problem.
EgeWhat should I say?
FatherIf I were you, I'd apologise and explain that you didn't mean any disrespect.
EgeOkay, I'll call her tonight. Thanks, Dad.
Growing Up Without Wi-Fi
1 Before listening
- What do you predict Zehra's grandmother's teenage years were like, compared to Zehra's?
2 While listening
Transkripti göster
ZehraFor this presentation, I'm going to compare my grandmother's teenage years with my own.
ZehraMy grandmother's family didn't even have a landline telephone until she was almost sixteen.
ZehraWhen I asked her about it, she said she had more freedom in some ways — she could roam the neighbourhood all day without anyone worrying.
ZehraBut she also had far less choice about her own education and career; those decisions were often made for her.
ZehraShe told me that before phones, she used to pass secret notes in class to talk to her friends — which is basically what our group chats are today.
ZehraIt made me realise that every generation finds its own way to stay connected, even without Wi-Fi.
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Use English
Öğrendiklerini konuşarak ve yazarak kullan.
Nasıl çalışılır?
- Useful language kutusundaki kalıpları oku.
- Konuşma görevini bir arkadaşınla yap ya da kendini kaydet.
- Yazma planını izleyerek taslağını yaz.
- Kontrol listesi ile yazını gözden geçir.
Bridging the Gap
In pairs, discuss the biggest differences between your generation and your grandparents' generation. Use the causative (have/get something done) and at least two advice expressions (should, ought to, had better, why don't you, if I were you) where natural.
A Value Worth Passing Down
Prepare a two-minute talk about one national, moral or cultural value (such as respect for elders, hospitality, honesty or family loyalty) that has been passed down in your family. Explain what it is, how it's shown in daily life, and why it matters to you.
Opinion Essay: Is the Generation Gap Growing?
Write a short opinion essay answering the question: is the generation gap growing wider today, or can it be bridged? Start with a clear topic sentence stating your opinion, add at least three supporting sentences with reasons and examples, and finish with a concluding sentence.
Kontrol listesi
An Advice Letter to a Younger Cousin
Write a letter to a younger cousin who is having a disagreement with their grandparents about technology or independence. Give them clear, kind advice using a range of advice expressions.
Kontrol listesi
Adım 7 / 8
Review
Kısa kontroller; yanlışlar seni ilgili bölüme yönlendirir.
Nasıl çalışılır?
- Kısa soruları cevapla.
- Kontrol et’e bas.
- Yanlışın varsa önerilen bölüme dön, tekrar et.
- Sonra tema testine geç.
Adım 8 / 8
Theme Test
Temanın tüm becerilerinden sorular.
Nasıl çalışılır?
- Tüm soruları cevapla; acele etme.
- Kontrol et’e bas.
- Sonuç ekranı hangi beceride hata yaptığını gösterir.
- %60 ve üzeri alınca tema tamamlanır.
Tema sonu
My Progress
İlerlemen bu tarayıcıda saklanır; hesap gerekmez.
Adımlar
- Vocabulary—
- Play—
- Grammar—
- Reading—
- Listening—
- Use English—
- Review—
- Theme Test—
I can…
Ödev — seviyeni seç
- Match 8 vocabulary words from this theme to their Turkish meanings.
- Complete 5 causative (have/get something done) gap-fill sentences about your own family.
- Copy out 5 advice expressions from this theme and write one true sentence for each.
- Complete a short gap-fill about a family tradition using the causative.
- Write 5 sentences about services your family has done for them, using have/get something done.
- Complete the Grammar 1 and Grammar 2 practice sections online.
- Write a short conversation (6–8 lines) between two family members from different generations discussing technology.
- Choose five vocabulary words from this theme and use each one in your own sentence about family life.
- Interview a grandparent or older relative about their teenage years and write a short paragraph (80–100 words) comparing it with your own.
- Record a 1-minute voice note giving advice to a younger relative about respecting family traditions.
- Design a one-page family tree poster showing one value or tradition passed down through at least three generations.
- Write a 100-word paragraph about a piece of advice an older family member once gave you and whether you followed it.
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