The conflict between the two neighbours had been going on for months.
Conflict
7A Coming to Terms — talking about conflicts, giving crucial information, offering solutions · 7B Changing Perspectives — looking at conflicts from different points of view
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What Will I Learn?
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- Bu temada neyi öğreneceğini oku.
- Aşağıdaki 8 adımı sırayla takip et; üstteki sekmelerden de geçebilirsin.
- Her adımın sonunda “Bu adımı tamamladım”a bas.
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Konular
- 7A Coming to Terms — talking about conflicts, giving crucial information, offering solutions
- 7B Changing Perspectives — looking at conflicts from different points of view
Dil yapıları
- Lexis and jargon about conflict
- Phrasal verbs about resolving disputes
Çalışma yolu
Adım 1 / 8
Vocabulary
19 hedef kelime
Nasıl çalışılır?
- Her kartta kelimeyi oku, hoparlör düğmesiyle dinle.
- Örnek cümleyi yüksek sesle tekrar et.
- “Anlamları gizle” ile kendini test et; anlamı görmek için üstüne dokun.
- Bilmediğin kelimeleri defterine yaz.
The dispute over the shared driveway ended up in front of a mediator.
Most of the tension turned out to be a simple misunderstanding.
They reached a compromise: one family kept the tree, the other got a new fence.
A trained mediator sat down with both neighbours to help them talk calmly.
Hearing her perspective helped him understand why she had reacted so strongly.
You could feel the tension in the office after the argument.
Showing empathy, not just logic, often calms a conflict down faster.
She finally apologised for interrupting him during the meeting.
Even angry neighbours can usually find some common ground.
They finally sat down to sort out the misunderstanding about the rent.
It took two long conversations to work out a fair schedule.
The cousins argued for a week, but they made up before the wedding.
The two business partners fell out over money last spring.
He stood up for his teammate even though the coach disagreed.
Neither side was willing to back down at first.
It's risky to bring up money problems at a family dinner.
They managed to patch things up before the trip.
He was against the plan at first, but he slowly came round.
Adım 2 / 8
Play
Kelimeleri oyunla pekiştir.
Nasıl çalışılır?
- Bir oyun seç ve Başla’ya bas.
- Her cevaptan sonra hemen doğru/yanlış görürsün.
- Sonunda tekrar etmen gereken kelimeler listelenir.
- %70 ve üzeri alınca bu adım tamamlanır.
Öğretmenler: her oyunun sınıfta oynanacak kart sürümü öğretmen sayfasında.
Adım 3 / 8
Grammar
Kuralı ezberleme; örneklerden kendin keşfet.
Nasıl çalışılır?
- Notice: Örnek cümlelerdeki renkli kısımlara bak.
- Discover: Kuralı tamamla, ipuçlarıyla cümle kur, sonra kendi cümlelerini yaz.
- Rule ve Form tablosunu oku; sık yapılan hatalara dikkat et.
- Practice: Soruları cevapla, “Kontrol et”e bas.
Reported Speech: Statements and Questions
- The new intern told her supervisor that she had already sent the email twice.
- My brother said he was going to sort things out with our neighbour that evening.
- The counsellor asked the students if they wanted to talk about the disagreement.
- She asked her colleague why he hadn't mentioned the problem earlier.
Which sentences report something someone said (a statement), and which report a question someone asked? What happens to the verb tense and the word order?
A Complete the rule
Complete the rule with the words in the box.
Nice work — you've worked out how reported speech changes!
B Build sentences
Use the cues to build true reported-speech sentences.
- Ayşe / say 'I / feel / left out'
✓ Ayşe said (that) she felt left out.
- the manager / tell / the team 'we / need / to talk about / this / openly'
Model answer
The manager told the team (that) they needed to talk about it openly.
- Deniz / say 'I / didn't mean / to upset / anyone'
Model answer
Deniz said (that) he hadn't meant to upset anyone.
- the teacher / ask / the boys 'why / are / you / arguing?'
Model answer
The teacher asked the boys why they were arguing.
- Elif / ask / her friend 'do / you / want / to talk / about it?'
Model answer
Elif asked her friend if she wanted to talk about it.
- ? / the mediator / ask / both sides 'what / would / help / you / most?'
Model answer
The mediator asked both sides what would help them most.
C Your turn
Think of a real or imagined disagreement. Write four sentences reporting what each person said or asked, using reported statements and reported questions.
In reported speech, the reporting verb (said, told, asked) is usually in the Simple Past, and the tense of the original words backshifts one step: 'I am' → 'was'; 'I did' → 'had done'. In reported questions, we use the question word or if/whether, but keep statement word order (no auxiliary before the subject) and no question mark.
TRReported speech (aktarılan konuşma) kullanırken, konuşma fiili (said, told, asked) genellikle Simple Past'te olur ve alıntılanan cümledeki fiil bir zaman geriye kayar (backshift): 'I am' → 'was'; 'I did' → 'had done'. Soru cümlelerinde soru sözcüğü ya da if/whether kullanılır, ancak kelime sırası düz bir cümle gibi olur (yardımcı fiil özneden önce gelmez) ve soru işareti kullanılmaz.
We use reported speech to tell someone else what a person said or asked — especially useful for explaining exactly who said what during a disagreement.
TRBirinin ne söylediğini ya da sorduğunu — özellikle bir anlaşmazlık ya da tartışma sırasında kimin ne dediğini — başka birine aktarırken reported speech kullanırız.
Positive
- She said (that) she was sorry.
- He told me he had already apologised.
Negative
- He said he hadn't meant to shout.
- She told us she didn't agree with the decision.
Question
- She asked if I was free to talk.
- He asked why they hadn't sorted it out sooner.
Short answers
- He said he was. / He said he wasn't.
- Reported questions have no short answers — restate the full clause instead.
- She said that she is sorry.She said that she was sorry.
When the reporting verb is in the Simple Past, the quoted verb usually backshifts too.
TRBildiren fiil Simple Past olduğunda, alıntılanan cümledeki fiil de genellikle bir zaman geriye kaymalıdır.
- He asked did I agree with him.He asked if I agreed with him.
In reported questions, the auxiliary does not come before the subject; use statement word order.
TRReported sorularda yardımcı fiil özneden önce gelmez; düz cümle sırası kullanılır.
- She asked me what did I want.She asked me what I wanted.
Wh-questions also use statement word order (subject + verb); the auxiliary 'did' disappears.
TRWh- sorularında da düz cümle sırası (özne + fiil) kullanılır; yardımcı fiil 'did' düşer.
| Direct speech | Reported speech | |
|---|---|---|
| Statement | "I'm upset," she said. | She said (that) she was upset. |
| Yes/No question | "Do you agree?" he asked. | He asked if I agreed. |
| Wh- question | "Why are you angry?" she asked. | She asked why I was angry. |
First & Second Conditional: Offering Solutions and Advice
- If we talk about it honestly, we'll probably find a solution.
- If I were you, I would apologise before things get worse.
- If both sides listen to each other, the tension will ease.
- If we had a mediator, the discussion would be much fairer.
Which sentences describe a realistic condition and its likely result, and which describe a less likely, imagined or advice-giving situation? What verb form follows 'if' in each type?
A Complete the rule
Complete the rule with the words in the box.
Exactly right — you've worked out both conditional patterns!
B Build sentences
Use the cues to build sentences offering a solution or piece of advice. Choose the first or second conditional.
- if / they / talk / calmly they / find / a solution
✓ If they talk calmly, they'll find a solution.
- if / you / apologise / first she / probably / forgive / you
Model answer
If you apologise first, she'll probably forgive you.
- if / I / be / you I / not ignore / the problem
Model answer
If I were you, I wouldn't ignore the problem.
- if / both sides / listen / to each other the conflict / calm down
Model answer
If both sides listen to each other, the conflict will calm down.
- if / we / have / a mediator the discussion / be / much fairer
Model answer
If we had a mediator, the discussion would be much fairer.
- ? / what / you / do if / your / best friend / stop / talking to you
Model answer
What would you do if your best friend stopped talking to you?
C Your turn
Think of a disagreement (real or invented). Write four conditional sentences offering solutions or advice — use both the first and second conditional.
Use the First Conditional for a realistic condition and its likely future result: If + Simple Present, ... will + verb. Use the Second Conditional for a less likely, hypothetical or advice-giving situation: If + Past Simple (usually 'were' for 'be'), ... would + verb. 'If I were you, I would…' is a very common way to give advice.
TRGerçekleşmesi olası bir durumu ve sonucunu anlatırken First Conditional kullanılır: If + Simple Present, ... will + fiil. Daha az olası, hayali ya da tavsiye niteliğindeki durumlar için Second Conditional kullanılır: If + Past Simple (be fiili için genellikle 'were'), ... would + fiil. 'If I were you, I would...' kalıbı, tavsiye vermenin çok yaygın bir yoludur.
We use the First Conditional to offer a realistic solution to a conflict, and the Second Conditional to discuss a hypothetical situation or to give someone advice.
TRBir anlaşmazlığa gerçekçi bir çözüm önerirken First Conditional; hayali bir durumu tartışırken ya da birine tavsiye verirken Second Conditional kullanırız.
Positive
- If we talk about it, we'll sort it out.
- If I were you, I would apologise.
Negative
- If we don't compromise, the tension won't go away.
- If she weren't so proud, she wouldn't refuse to talk.
Question
- Will they make up if we explain the misunderstanding?
- What would you do if you were in this situation?
Short answers
- Yes, they probably will. / No, they probably won't.
- I would talk to them. / I wouldn't say anything.
- If we will talk about it, we'll find a solution.If we talk about it, we'll find a solution.
The if-clause never uses 'will'; use the Simple Present instead.
TRIf cümleciğinde 'will' kullanılmaz; Simple Present kullanılır.
- If I was you, I would apologise.If I were you, I would apologise.
In the second conditional, the standard form of 'be' is 'were' for every subject, especially in this fixed phrase.
TRSecond conditional'da 'be' fiili için standart kullanım her özneyle 'were'dir, özellikle bu kalıpta.
- If they listened to each other, they will solve it.If they listened to each other, they would solve it.
Don't mix the two conditional types — both clauses should match: either both First or both Second conditional.
TRİki farklı koşul cümlesi karıştırılmamalı: her iki cümlecik de ya First ya da ikisi de Second conditional olmalı.
| First Conditional (realistic) | Second Conditional (hypothetical / advice) | |
|---|---|---|
| Use | a realistic future possibilityIf we talk, we'll fix it. | an unlikely, imagined situation, or adviceIf I were you, I'd talk to her. |
| If-clause verb | Simple PresentIf they listen… | Past Simple / wereIf they listened… / If I were… |
| Result clause | will + base verb…they will understand. | would + base verb…they would understand. |
Adım 4 / 8
Reading
Özgün metin ve anlama soruları.
Nasıl çalışılır?
- Before: Başlığa bakıp tahmin et.
- Metni önce hızlıca, sonra dikkatle oku.
- While: Soruları cevapla ve kontrol et.
- After: Konuşma sorularını düşün ya da yaz.
1 Before reading
- Look at the title. What kind of conflict do you think this story is about?
- Have you ever disagreed with a neighbour or classmate about something small that grew into a bigger problem?
The Fence Between Us
When the Aydemirs planted a tall hedge along their garden fence, their neighbours, the Karas, were furious. The hedge blocked the afternoon sun from the Karas' vegetable patch, and within a week the two families were barely speaking. Mr Kara left an angry note; Mrs Aydemir replied with an even angrier one. What had started as a small disagreement over a few metres of greenery was quickly turning into a serious conflict between two families who had once shared coffee every weekend.
Eventually, a mutual friend suggested they invite a local mediator, someone trained to help neighbours sort out exactly this kind of dispute. In their first meeting, the mediator asked each side one simple question: 'What do you actually need, not just what do you want?' It turned out the Karas needed more light for their vegetables, while the Aydemirs needed privacy from a busy street. Once both families understood the other's real reason, the argument suddenly felt much smaller.
The solution wasn't complicated. The Aydemirs agreed to trim the hedge to waist height, keeping their privacy lower down while letting sunlight reach the vegetable patch. Neither family got exactly what they had first demanded, but both got what they truly needed. Six months later, the Karas and Aydemirs were sharing coffee again — and jokes about the infamous hedge.
221 kelime · yaklaşık 2 dk
2 While reading
3 After reading
- Why do you think understanding someone's real 'need' (not just their demand) can help resolve a conflict?
- Can you think of a compromise that could solve a disagreement you know about?
1 Before reading
- What do you think can cause conflict in a group project at school?
- Do you think it's fair to judge someone before hearing their side of the story?
Two Sides of the Story
When their teacher put Aslı, Burak and two classmates into a group project on renewable energy, nobody expected it to end in an argument. By the second week, Aslı had written most of the report herself, while Burak had missed two planning meetings without much explanation. 'He clearly doesn't care about the grade,' Aslı complained to her friends, refusing to speak to him directly.
When their teacher noticed the tension, she asked both students to explain their side privately before deciding anything. Burak admitted he had been working extra shifts at his family's shop after school and had simply lost track of the group's messages. Aslı, meanwhile, admitted she had never actually told him how much extra work she was doing — she had just assumed he knew.
With their teacher's help, the group redrew the task list, giving Burak a smaller, clearly defined part he could finish around his shifts, and giving Aslı credit for the sections she had already written. Their final presentation on solar energy went smoothly, and afterwards Burak thanked Aslı for not simply reporting him — while Aslı admitted she should have asked, instead of assumed, from the start.
194 kelime · yaklaşık 2 dk
2 While reading
3 After reading
- Why did assuming, instead of asking, make the conflict worse?
- What would you have done differently if you were Aslı, from the start?
Adım 5 / 8
Listening
Dinle, anla, transkriptle kontrol et.
Nasıl çalışılır?
- Before: Ne duyacağını tahmin et.
- Kaydı dinle; transkripti kapalı tut.
- Soruları cevapla, kontrol et.
- Son olarak transkriptle kontrol et ve tekrar dinle.
Sorting It Out
1 Before listening
- Predict: what kind of everyday disagreement do you think Zeynep and her flatmate had?
2 While listening
Transkripti göster
ZeynepSelin and I had a huge argument last night, all about the cleaning schedule.
FriendOh no, what happened?
ZeynepShe said I never do the dishes on time, and I said she never takes the rubbish out. It got pretty loud.
FriendDid you two talk about it after?
ZeynepYes, actually. This morning Selin asked if we could talk calmly instead of shouting, and I agreed.
FriendThat's good. So what did you decide?
ZeynepI really believe that making a proper rota might stop the arguments — if everyone knows exactly what to do and when.
FriendSounds sensible. What if it still doesn't work?
ZeynepThen I'll suggest asking our third flatmate to be a mediator, since she's always neutral.
FriendGood plan. I hope the rota works out.
Peer Mediators at Our School
1 Before listening
- What do you predict a 'peer mediator' does at school?
2 While listening
Transkripti göster
ReporterMira, can you explain what a peer mediator actually does?
MiraSure. A peer mediator is a trained student who helps classmates sort out small conflicts before they get worse.
ReporterHow does a session usually work?
MiraThe mediator asks each person to explain their side and listen without interrupting, so both sides feel heard.
ReporterDoes the mediator decide who's right?
MiraNo, that's a common misunderstanding. The mediator doesn't decide who's right — we just help both sides listen to each other and find a solution together.
ReporterWhat happens with really serious problems?
MiraThose still go to a teacher. We only handle everyday disagreements, not serious issues.
Adım 6 / 8
Use English
Öğrendiklerini konuşarak ve yazarak kullan.
Nasıl çalışılır?
- Useful language kutusundaki kalıpları oku.
- Konuşma görevini bir arkadaşınla yap ya da kendini kaydet.
- Yazma planını izleyerek taslağını yaz.
- Kontrol listesi ile yazını gözden geçir.
Take Sides or Find Middle Ground?
In pairs, discuss a short conflict scenario your teacher gives you (e.g. two classmates disagree about a shared project, or two neighbours argue about noise). Use reported speech to explain what each side said, and conditionals to suggest a solution.
A Conflict I Helped Solve (or Wish I Had)
Prepare a two-minute talk about a real or invented conflict — between friends, family members, classmates or colleagues. Explain what happened, what each side wanted, and how it was (or could be) resolved.
Sorting It Out: A Conflict Story
Write a short narrative about a conflict (real or invented) between two people. Describe what caused the disagreement, what each side said or felt, and how it was eventually resolved. Use at least one example of reported speech.
Kontrol listesi
How Would You Solve It? An Advice Text
A reader has written to an advice column about a conflict with a friend, neighbour or colleague. Write a reply offering practical solutions, using first and second conditional sentences ('If you..., you'll...' / 'If I were you, I'd...').
Kontrol listesi
Adım 7 / 8
Review
Kısa kontroller; yanlışlar seni ilgili bölüme yönlendirir.
Nasıl çalışılır?
- Kısa soruları cevapla.
- Kontrol et’e bas.
- Yanlışın varsa önerilen bölüme dön, tekrar et.
- Sonra tema testine geç.
Adım 8 / 8
Theme Test
Temanın tüm becerilerinden sorular.
Nasıl çalışılır?
- Tüm soruları cevapla; acele etme.
- Kontrol et’e bas.
- Sonuç ekranı hangi beceride hata yaptığını gösterir.
- %60 ve üzeri alınca tema tamamlanır.
Tema sonu
My Progress
İlerlemen bu tarayıcıda saklanır; hesap gerekmez.
Adımlar
- Vocabulary—
- Play—
- Grammar—
- Reading—
- Listening—
- Use English—
- Review—
- Theme Test—
I can…
Ödev — seviyeni seç
- Match 8 vocabulary words from this theme to their Turkish meanings.
- Complete 5 reported speech gap-fill sentences based on a short dialogue.
- Copy out 6 phrasal verbs from this theme and write one example sentence for each.
- Complete a short gap-fill using 'If I were you, I would…' to give advice to a friend.
- Write 5 sentences reporting what different people said during a disagreement, using reported speech.
- Complete the Grammar 1 and Grammar 2 practice sections online.
- Write a short dialogue (6–8 lines) between two people resolving a disagreement, using at least one conditional sentence.
- Choose five vocabulary words from this theme and use each one in your own sentence about a conflict.
- Interview a family member about a disagreement they once resolved, and write a 100-word paragraph reporting what they told you.
- Record a 1-minute voice note describing a conflict you've seen (at school, home or online) and how you think it could be solved.
- Design a one-page poster for a 'Peer Mediation Club' at your school, including its aim, meeting time and three benefits.
- Write a short advice-column reply (100 words) to an imagined letter about a friendship conflict, using both conditionals.
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